Okay then. Whenever you want to meet girls on Facebook, just follow these steps and you’ll see things unfold like magic.
1. ADD GIRLS YOU THINK ARE CUTE
A no brainer.
Spend a couple of hours per week, adding 5 to 10 girls you think are cute or really hot as a friend. Write an intriguing opening line in the “add message” box that pops up.
If you can’t think of anything funny or intriguing to say, just forget the message and add her as a friend anyway.
2. GET FAMILIAR WITH HER PAGE
Spend 15 minutes skimming through her about page, interests, past wall posts in her timeline and photos. Just get a good understanding of who she is, what she’s about and how she interacts with her friends.
This will give you a better overview of her personality so you can connect with her.
3. COMMENT ON NEW PHOTOS, VIDEOS AND STATUS UPDATES
When she posts a new photo, video or status update that you like, comment on it with a funny or positive message. Don’t be negative or too try hard, it will piss her off.
Keep doing this for about 3 weeks, so she becomes familiar with you.
4. SEND THE FIRST MESSAGE
After you’ve posted a few comments and liked her status updates, photos, videos etc, go ahead and message her to get the ball rolling.
Keep it brief, ask her opinion on something, so that she will likely respond. Women just can’t resist offering advice, it’s like breathing for them.
5. CONNECT WITH HER
If she responds to every message, it means she like you… so keep it up. Each message should be short and sweet, but you should be trying to connect with her. Try to really understand what she lives for, how she feels, and who she really is. Go with that goal and your conversations will be more interesting and connected.
6. SET UP A MEET
Never rush meeting with her, it should be at least a month and multiple messages before you should arrange meeting in person. Sometimes even longer, depending how many messages you’ve sent and how responsive she is.
Say to her “Let’s meet for a coffee or a bite to eat next week…” then arrange the time and date with her.
The absolute best way to get her to meet is if you speak to her on the phone. Give her your number (don’t ask for hers) and say “Call me later, so we can meet up for a coffee in town”.
Second best would be texting her or messaging her on Facebook.
RULES YOU MUST FOLLOW
Write these down and stick them to your forehead so you don’t forget them.
Make sure your photos are up to date – Keep them fresh, like within the last couple of months so it’s not a shock when you meet her. It’s fine to have old ones, but keep them buried.
Delete any photos of random girls on their own – If there are any slutty shots of girls in your albums, get rid of them. When another girl looks at this, she will think you’re typical guy and will just delete you.
Use social proof – Upload pictures of you and pretty girls hanging out, but safe shots… like you’re in the park chilling with your “girl” friends or on a day out somewhere. This is also known as pre-selection.
NEVER cold message a girl… it’s stupid – If you send 100 cold messages you might get one back, but it would be from a nutcase. Women get cold messages all the time and it never works, so don’t be a dumb-ass.
Never leave yourself tagged in photos that can harm your cred – People like tagging other people in funny shots, like you throwing up in the gutter after a night out or running threw your garden butt naked. Make sure you’re not tagged in any of these shots.
Never say how pretty or hot she is when she posts a “validation” photo – Women love posting shots online so they can get a shot of confidence, don’t give them that satisfaction. Always post a funny comment or don’t post anything at all.
Don’t be Mr. funny – Women like funny guys but if you’re always trying to be funny, it can wear thin pretty quickly. So use the funny lines every so often.
Don’t ask for the number outright – If you add her as a friend and go straight for the number, it’s just creepy. No rapport means no number.
CONCLUSION
So that’s how you pick up girls on Facebook dude.
I know that guys will bitch and moan about how long it might take, but get real for a minute… you’re not going to pick up a girl and bang her on the first day right? Exactly, so just chill.
1. ADD GIRLS YOU THINK ARE CUTE
A no brainer.
Spend a couple of hours per week, adding 5 to 10 girls you think are cute or really hot as a friend. Write an intriguing opening line in the “add message” box that pops up.
If you can’t think of anything funny or intriguing to say, just forget the message and add her as a friend anyway.
2. GET FAMILIAR WITH HER PAGE
Spend 15 minutes skimming through her about page, interests, past wall posts in her timeline and photos. Just get a good understanding of who she is, what she’s about and how she interacts with her friends.
This will give you a better overview of her personality so you can connect with her.
3. COMMENT ON NEW PHOTOS, VIDEOS AND STATUS UPDATES
When she posts a new photo, video or status update that you like, comment on it with a funny or positive message. Don’t be negative or too try hard, it will piss her off.
Keep doing this for about 3 weeks, so she becomes familiar with you.
4. SEND THE FIRST MESSAGE
After you’ve posted a few comments and liked her status updates, photos, videos etc, go ahead and message her to get the ball rolling.
Keep it brief, ask her opinion on something, so that she will likely respond. Women just can’t resist offering advice, it’s like breathing for them.
5. CONNECT WITH HER
If she responds to every message, it means she like you… so keep it up. Each message should be short and sweet, but you should be trying to connect with her. Try to really understand what she lives for, how she feels, and who she really is. Go with that goal and your conversations will be more interesting and connected.
6. SET UP A MEET
Never rush meeting with her, it should be at least a month and multiple messages before you should arrange meeting in person. Sometimes even longer, depending how many messages you’ve sent and how responsive she is.
Say to her “Let’s meet for a coffee or a bite to eat next week…” then arrange the time and date with her.
The absolute best way to get her to meet is if you speak to her on the phone. Give her your number (don’t ask for hers) and say “Call me later, so we can meet up for a coffee in town”.
Second best would be texting her or messaging her on Facebook.
RULES YOU MUST FOLLOW
Write these down and stick them to your forehead so you don’t forget them.
Make sure your photos are up to date – Keep them fresh, like within the last couple of months so it’s not a shock when you meet her. It’s fine to have old ones, but keep them buried.
Delete any photos of random girls on their own – If there are any slutty shots of girls in your albums, get rid of them. When another girl looks at this, she will think you’re typical guy and will just delete you.
Use social proof – Upload pictures of you and pretty girls hanging out, but safe shots… like you’re in the park chilling with your “girl” friends or on a day out somewhere. This is also known as pre-selection.
NEVER cold message a girl… it’s stupid – If you send 100 cold messages you might get one back, but it would be from a nutcase. Women get cold messages all the time and it never works, so don’t be a dumb-ass.
Never leave yourself tagged in photos that can harm your cred – People like tagging other people in funny shots, like you throwing up in the gutter after a night out or running threw your garden butt naked. Make sure you’re not tagged in any of these shots.
Never say how pretty or hot she is when she posts a “validation” photo – Women love posting shots online so they can get a shot of confidence, don’t give them that satisfaction. Always post a funny comment or don’t post anything at all.
Don’t be Mr. funny – Women like funny guys but if you’re always trying to be funny, it can wear thin pretty quickly. So use the funny lines every so often.
Don’t ask for the number outright – If you add her as a friend and go straight for the number, it’s just creepy. No rapport means no number.
CONCLUSION
So that’s how you pick up girls on Facebook dude.
I know that guys will bitch and moan about how long it might take, but get real for a minute… you’re not going to pick up a girl and bang her on the first day right? Exactly, so just chill.
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